Oh, divas. We knew all of that deliciousness wouldn’t go unsnatched forever.

Today, Michael Ealy’s rep confirmed to People.com that the ‘Think Like a Man’ actor married Khatira Rafiqzada, his girlfriend of four years, back in October.

The representative stated: “Michael has always been a private guy, and he wanted to enjoy his time as a newlywed with his wife privately. Now that some time has passed and the holidays are here, he wanted to share the news with his fans that he is married and very happy.”

With the thoughts of our many crushed dreams being put aside, we wish the newlyweds the best!

(Insert tears here)

Your thoughts on the heartthrob’s secret nuptials?