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To quote a line from our fellow Diva, Mary J. Blige: It feels so good when you let go of all the drama in your life!
Divas, theres something we have to discuss. First, I need all of you to get a mirror. A small one, medium one, full length one…it doesnt matter…just get one. The next step is I want you to look into it. Hard. Ignore the fact that you may not have any makeup on, or you may have a few hairs out of place, or your lipgloss may need some retouching…just look in the mirror. Do you see that beautiful face? That face, is worth it. That face, deserves to live stress free and without drama, hate and dormant malice.
Do you agree?
I know you do, Diva…and that brings me to the next part of our little assignment.
Divas I need us to identify & eliminate the stressors in our lives. Especially our love lives. Love & relationships are meant to be savored. Experienced. Filled with the joy and companionship that keeps us telling stories around fireplaces to our eager grandchildren…not stressing us out.
If you constantly feel like your mate is playing games to get you to show emotion or get a rise out of you…or keeps putting you off or making you feel unimportant, it may be time to think about other options. Let me be clear, I am not saying that the solution for any relationship hiccup (and those will come in ANY situation) is to leave, but as I am known for saying ; Love is Patient, not dumb as hell. Do NOT allow yourself to be used and taken advantage of because you love someone, because guess what…Love does NOT hurt. It does NOT make you feel less of yourself..and it does NOT cause you to feel as though you have to always apologize for things you didn’t even know you did. Love will NOT always have you feel like a Joker when you know you should always be the Queen.
As always Divas, I want us to have full ownership of our emotions and acknowledge even those things that make us uncomfortable. Sometimes it not about being a “ride or die chick”…the time is going to come when we have to be a “bye-bye Woman”. Its up to you to decide.